Stop Trying To Please Or Impress The Girl...

A perfect example of an every day loser is the guy who kisses up to a
girl just to get her attention. Don’t treat a girl as if you have just met
your future girlfriend or wife.
If you subconsciously find yourself saying the things you should not
be saying, or doing the things you should not be doing, then you are
only trying to hide an inner belief of lack or weakness.
In order to cover up for your inner lack, you try to impress or please
the girl.
The best way to impress the girl is actually not to impress her at all,
because she won’t be impressed as long as you make obvious efforts
to get her attention. The moment you let go of the need or desire to
please her, is the point where she would automatically be impressed.
Why?
Well, because she is used to seeing guys make constant efforts to
impress her all the time.
Consider these two scenarios-

Situation #1
Guy- “Hey how are you doing? Can I buy you a Drink?”
Girl- “I am doing fine. No Thanks.”
Guy- (No words).
Situation #2
Guy- “Hey! Do you know what’s the best drink they offer here?”
Girl- “Yeh, its xyz drink.”
Guy- “Cool! So are you going to buy me one?”
See the difference?
The female will obviously show a stronger emotional response to
situation number 2, only because the approach wasn’t obvious, and
the guy wasn’t trying to impress her.
Most women are accustomed to seeing guys impress them; therefore,
whenever they come across something, which is not so obvious, it
instantly catches their attention.