"You know I think that everyone with a head on their shoulders has got to have some idea of
what theyre looking for in a relationship.
Maybe youve met guys in the past where you come home from the date or get off the phone and
youre saying Well he seems to have a lot of this, but I dont know if hes got enough of that or
Yeah he has a lot of what I look for but theres just this one thing about him I dont like, and
while it might seem natural to evaluate someone like that sometimes, I never do it - at least not
with someone Im really interested in.
Havent you ever met a guy who you were just so attracted to everything about him (confusing
on purpose), you could just feel how he satisfied all of your values, and afterwards you werent
picking him apart with all those questions, you were just imagining everything that would happen
the next time you were with him? - A guy where you knew he had something to offer and you
would do whatever to be sure it was offered - to you?
(If Yes, find out what that was like & incorporate it. If no just go on).
You see thats the kind of person Im looking for - Its like, what if you maybe started off meeting
this person and you still had that ruler handy, that one you use in your mine to measure guys,
ready to measure if he had enough of this or that, but then, as you talked to him longer and as the
time passed you were just having so much fun, its as if you just started instead to pay attention
to those gut intuitions that just said overwhelmingly You want this guy, you want this guy, you
want him bad!
And instead of wasting your attention on measuring, you just felt that growing compulsion
building, and now its just like all those values you look for just blend together and you see right
then that he had what you really value, and you stop your measuring because this guys longer
(sp) than your ruler (sexual innuendo)!
With me, thats the kind of excitement I look for in a relationship and when the excitement is
there, thats when you feel absolutely compelled to just go for it now (dickpoint)."
what theyre looking for in a relationship.
Maybe youve met guys in the past where you come home from the date or get off the phone and
youre saying Well he seems to have a lot of this, but I dont know if hes got enough of that or
Yeah he has a lot of what I look for but theres just this one thing about him I dont like, and
while it might seem natural to evaluate someone like that sometimes, I never do it - at least not
with someone Im really interested in.
Havent you ever met a guy who you were just so attracted to everything about him (confusing
on purpose), you could just feel how he satisfied all of your values, and afterwards you werent
picking him apart with all those questions, you were just imagining everything that would happen
the next time you were with him? - A guy where you knew he had something to offer and you
would do whatever to be sure it was offered - to you?
(If Yes, find out what that was like & incorporate it. If no just go on).
You see thats the kind of person Im looking for - Its like, what if you maybe started off meeting
this person and you still had that ruler handy, that one you use in your mine to measure guys,
ready to measure if he had enough of this or that, but then, as you talked to him longer and as the
time passed you were just having so much fun, its as if you just started instead to pay attention
to those gut intuitions that just said overwhelmingly You want this guy, you want this guy, you
want him bad!
And instead of wasting your attention on measuring, you just felt that growing compulsion
building, and now its just like all those values you look for just blend together and you see right
then that he had what you really value, and you stop your measuring because this guys longer
(sp) than your ruler (sexual innuendo)!
With me, thats the kind of excitement I look for in a relationship and when the excitement is
there, thats when you feel absolutely compelled to just go for it now (dickpoint)."
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