At Least We Can Be Friends pattern

Can you make her first consider and then _want_ the opposite?:)
Ross Jeffries:
"I don't know if you'd find me really attractive or that I might be somebody that you can feel
really close to... because it doesn't happen with just anyone... you know what I mean don't you?
That feeling of closeness that allows you to let go and really be with someone... I'm not sure we
could have that... But we might have fun finding out and the very least we might be friends... But
it is nice isn't it? I mean when that does happen and you find yourself having all those feelings...
inside. You know how that feels don't you? I mean when was the last time you felt that way?
Really intense... inside... and down below… and as you think about it have you noticed you can
get some of those feelings back now! But you know I find you really attractive but I don't want
you to sleep with me... I'm not even going to ask you... because its your decision... and any way
I'm not sure you can make me want you... but its nice to think about it isn't it? And I'm sure you'll
find what you really want... eventually but until then we can have some kind of closeness…
because I don't want to sleep with anyone who doesn't really want to sleep with me... 100%. But
we can be friends can't we?"

I Want You pattern

After some initial fluff talk: first look straight into her eyes and then discreetly whisper this
pattern in her ear, allowing her to feel your warm breath on the side of her neck below her ears,
squeezing her hands firmly yet ever so gently at the same time. Even if she will put up some
resistance on the surface, you can bet that she is totally melting from the inside.
"I want you despite the fact that we've only known each other very shortly. I want us to be that
loving couple walking barefoot on the beach holding hands right on the edge of the ocean where
only the more lingering waves can reach, gently caressing our feet. The sky is fiery red on the
horizon as the sun is ever so graciously going down, plunging into the warmth of the loving sea.
A light breeze gently whispers in our ears as we look into each other's eyes. We can both feel the
heat of our passion as our hearts beat in unison, but we hold back until the feeling intensifies past
the point of our futile resistance. In a fury of emotions my thoughts deeply penetrate your mind
making your attention slowly move back and forth, over and over, from pure love to raw animal
instinct and lust, as you come and come again to the same conclusion that you must surrender
your entire being to the sheer power of our passion that is sweeping us both away into a world of
feeling complete. Then comes our first kiss...
Update (modified from Ross Jeffries' www.introme.com) ...that first, soft brush of the lips so soft
you're not even sure you're kissing yet, and it's as if all the passion... all the fire that will be
experienced in the relationship is enfolded in that one, first, soft, special kiss, just waiting to be
explored and made real. It's that moment where time stands still and yet in that one moment,
there is an eternity of experience to be explored as the dreams of a lifetime of love explode in
you in this moment of passion and fulfillment... It makes your knees weak and your heart soar
and every part of you comes... alive... awakened... ready for whatever will come next. I want you
(insert name here)."
And without any hesitation you kiss her on the lips. If she's right into it, the kiss will be a very
passionate one. If she's still in shock you can just steal an innocent kiss without making a big
deal about it. It might take her a while to get out of that mesmerized state before she will allow
herself to act on her own feelings, but when she does - the result will be more passionate kissing.

The Eyes patterns

Pattern I
(by John Casewest)
"Has anyone ever told you that you have the most interesting eyes?
They have a quality about them that says "there's more to this person than you might think at first
glance".
(This works GREAT on women that are VERY beautiful and hear it all. You might also want to
open with something like "Any idiot can look at you and tell you that you are beautiful but it
takes a ________ and a ________ (list your good qualities) man to see, that [then go into your
pattern]. This is a TOTAL break state!)
Have you ever met someone with that look in there that just said "underneath this person's gotta
be someone exciting and riveting" and you just have to get to know this person (sp) better. Or
maybe it was like you could look so deep into their eyes and they just fascinated you (ambiguity)
because you couldn't quite place it but they just looked somehow so familiar. With me I have to
*follow that feeling* when there's someone right in front of me with eyes like that.
(Next piece could be used in any cold walk up, both to challenge them and get them comfortable)
Most people are a little too scared to just approach someone they feel the urge to meet, and I
know it can take courage to meet someone just because you want to see if they’re the kind of
person you might really want to spend time with, but I know I’m (flattered, respect or a trance
word) when someone has the initiative and (chuckle tonality) good sense to go out of her way to
get to know me!"
Pattern II
(by John Casewest)
Has anyone ever told you that you have the most interesting eyes?
You know I know a few people with eyes like yours and I’ve found people with eyes like that
tend to be exciting and riveting people, like that glow isn’t just right there but in their whole
personality as well…
It’s like as if when you look into someone’s eyes, you can just see the whole way into them, and
*feel so comfortable. With me*, it’s even more exciting (count the commands there) though, the
different things people can say with their eyes - eyes can also show deep understanding, and
whether you’re paying close attention to something or what’s going on deep inside you.
It’s amazing the things people’s eyes can tell, it’s like as if you can see a sense of humor right
there in someone, or when the eyes are mysterious or sometimes just really intriguing, that just
make you want to find out more of what’s going on behind them. Aren’t eyes just most
fascinating..."

Reading the Poem pattern

ASF: "If you are going to read her poetry, get her really curious first, don't just blurt it out to
entertain her. Challenge with something like: "Have you ever been there thinking about someone,
and for whatever reason you just go into a very playful, light-hearted, creative state and in that, I
guess you could even call it a romantic state, you just do things you wouldn't usually do. Like the
other day I just grabbed a pen and wrote a whole bunch of stuff, and when I looked at it
afterwards, I thought hey this is like poetry or something. I've never shared stuff like this with
anyone, and I don't know if you're the sort of person who would be open enough to appreciate it
because for me it's very personal, it'd be letting you into a part of my mind nobody has ever
shared before, and you'd have to leave behind all the rules, all the roles, all the peer pressure and
come, bare of all preconceptions as it were, ready to take this essence (SP) deep inside you and
make it part of who you are, now with me..."."

"The more… the more" pattern

Ross Jeffries: "Another very simple and powerful way to thought bind is to use a pattern my
good friend and teacher Kenrick Cleveland calls "the more the more pattern". A simple way to
use this, in a pickup, is to get a woman laughing. Once she laughs, call attention to it by saying
something like, "See...you're laughing. It feels good to laugh. And the more you laugh, the more
you'll discover that you really want to go out with me!". Now, it sounds too simple, but it works!
"The more... the more" basically is saying that doing one thing causes you or makes you do
something else. Here's some other possible uses:
• The more you try to think of reasons why you can't, the more you realise just how much you
can.
• The more you laugh the more you recognise how much fun it would be to spend time together,
NOW. Do you want to have coffee, or would lunch be better?
• The more you try to think of (whatever important male in her life), the more you find yourself
thinking of me." or "The more you are thinking about him, the more you find you thoughts
coming back to me.
• The more you are thinking about leaving, the more you know you have to stay for me.
• The more you're thinking about the music, the more you realise it would be fun to dance with
me:)"
Update. Make her a believer:) Ross Jeffries:
"I don't know how exactly you'll absolutely convince yourself that what I am saying is totally true
and right and the more you might resist that suggestion the more the deeper and much more open
part of you is beginning to find reasons why its true. Maybe not the reasons I suggest but your
own reasons and that how you can know its true because you yourself are having those thoughts,
it isn't me. And you don't argue with your own thinking do you?"

Sex is Natural pattern

Kevin Kupal, mindlist:
(Fluff talk etc. Remember.. connection first!)
You : Well, we're adult's now, aren't we? We can talk about sex in an intelligent way, can't we ?
Her : Uhhh...yeah...
You : Well....how do you VIEW SEX NOW. (?)
(shut up and let her talk)
You : I agree. And I think that SEX is much more than that. It's human nature! SEX ensures that
our species will survive and that's why SEX IS PROGRAMMED DEEPLY... INSIDE... YOUR
MINE. It's like... there's this voice (pause, point to your own mouth or throat... hahaha...
ambiguity) inside YOUR MINE, which is actually, your vocalized URGES and DESIRES... and
as you LISTEN TO THIS VOICE, it's telling you... YOU WANNA HAVE SEX, YOU WANNA
HAVE SEX... YOU NEED TO HAVE SEX.... YOU NEED TO HAVE SEX. NOW, WITH ME,
this is all so natural! You may not ACT ON IT, or JUST DO IT, but the point is, it's a DESIRE...
a natural, AROUSING URGE... ME, I TAKE THIS IN (point to dick)... with an open mind.
I don't know if you have OPENED YOURSELF UP (open leg gesture*) to things (point to dick)
like these."
open leg gesture - join both palms, point palms towards her legs, then separate them on cue.

Find Your Desire pattern

Odious, ASF: "Women ask me how I make good girls want to be bad (this guy has "I'll make
good girls want to be bad" in his online-profile), etc. My answer is, I show them how to find their
desires".
Odious:
"When you just stop... and look deep inside of you... and you are able to push aside all the rules
and restrictions that hold you back... you find that you are free to look at your own desires with
eyes unclouded by the fears of others. You can look deep inside and see that special place where
you keep all your secrets. Inside is what you desire. You can see your desires and when you see
your desires, you know that what you want is right there waiting for you to act on your desire.
Now, with me... that's quite a powerful thing. When you see your desires clearly, maybe for the
first time, the excitement and longing you feel is very strong. The excitement of knowing you can
fulfil these desires and the longing of wanting so share that experience with someone who
understands how you feel. When you allow your feelings and desires to dictate your actions...
you can look deep inside yourself with eyes unclouded by the fears of others... and now see your
true desires... and know this is something you have to experience."