PATTERNING- Patterning explained

Patterns form the core of Ross Jeffries' Speed Seduction technique. Patterns are scripts of
describing various wonderful states of mind and feelings to a girl, seemingly having nothing to
do with you and her (for example by describing the wonderful feelings and states that music,
dancing, eating strawberries and chocolate etc can create), but subconsciously getting her
aroused… by what you're saying and in effect by you:) You can either link all those wonderful
feelings you make her feel by what you're saying by self-pointing at appropriate times (which is
what Ross Jeffries recommends), but the simple fact that you're there while she gets all those
feelings and that you are the originator of them should do the job as well:).
Making her feel all those wonderful states not only means describing them to her, it also means
giving her commands embedded in what you're saying to experience those states. Descriptions by
themselves might not always work, she might not be paying too much attention and wander off in
her thoughts, but once you've given her commands - "Feel it building... focus in on those feelings...
surrender completely..." - she might first even be aroused by such commands by
themselves, but she will definetly be much more attentive towards the descriptions you are about
to offer.
Patterns also contain subconscious messages known as binder commands. For example, an
excerpt from a pattern: "… that's the way to do it. Now, with me, its different, because…"
incorporates a binder command of "DO IT! NOW! WITH ME!", which will bind all feelings and
desires her arousal has created to YOU.
Once you have her attention, one of the most powerful methods of making her "feel" is using
sexual metaphors. They sound innocent in the context of what you're saying, but she is bound to
pick up on them and once you have her imagining all those phrases out of context… don't be
surprised if she says has to go to the bathroom for a moment and you notice her seat is all wet:)
A few examples of such phrases are: "Create an opening for it... feel that thought penetrate you....
you come over and over again to the same conclusion...". Now that you know what to look for,
you'll find more phrases in the example patterns presented in this guide.
One rather dubious aspect of patterns is the so-called weasel phrases. For example the phrases
"…these values are below me" pronounced "BLOW ME!", "…a feeling of happiness"
pronounced "hap-PENIS!", "…in you're mind" pronounced "YOU'RE MINE!", "…thoughts
flowing in a new direction" pronounced "NUDE ERECTION!", "...the sky is so beautiful"
pronounced "THIS GUY IS SO BEAUTIFUL!" - these double-meaning pronunciations are
supposed to give her subconscious messages, but the effectiveness of such attributes of
patterning are slightly questionable though.
The main value of patterns remains in their ability to make a girl recall or imagine absolutely
wonderful feelings and states of mind, while subconsciously linking them all to you.

The Ideal Guy routine

NYC, ASF: "If I can't get her to be interested in me, I go into the "the ideal guy" routine. Since
she thinks I'm helping her to find what she wants, she greedily, hungrily describes her dream guy.
Then I get her to describe what he's wearing, how his hair looks, how his voice is, what he says
to her, how his chest feels, how she feels in his arms... I just ask her the right questions to get her
meta-stating ABOUT someone that makes her feel the way she likes to feel in order to fuck. She
thinks about and experiences the feelings, but WHO is she talking to? ME. Basically she gets
confused and thinks she is feeling that way about me when she is actually feeling that way about
some other guy. If she likes HIM, but is talking to YOU, it probably means she doesn't have the
GUTS to approach him fearing a rejection. You can get her to think about him all night if you
want, and he'll remain a living fantasy to her. Meanwhile... she is getting horny in general AND
you are the one making her feel the way she does. Just by being with you and seeing you and
hearing you and touching you, she gets these feelings... basically she transfers what she WANTS
from the guy over to you.
The other benefit of this style is that girls will admit their horny behaviour when you are NOT
talking about yourself and you ARE talking about some movie star or something... for instance:
Me: what would you do if Keanu walked in here right now?
Her: I would seduce him any way I can
Me: what would you do to seduce Keanu?
Next, she spills the beans about what she would do to convince a man she REALLY WANTS to
be with her. Getting all hot and bothered along the way of course:) And since you're in the
vicinity…:)"

Use sexual stories to get her horny

Use personal experience or fantasy stories to get her horny. ASF: "Never use stories DIRECTLY
INVOLVING the girl you're with. QUOTE about what you did to other chicks or what you want
to do to other chicks or ask her about what she has done or would like to do with other guys. You
can use this even in every-day discussions by elaborating at the right time and in the right
direction:) A variation: get her in a private place, and feed her with fantasies, increasingly sexual,
in a hypnotic way, until she can't stand it anymore and will rape you:)" A journalist discussing
SS, Playboy, July'98: "I had a friend in college whose success with women was mind-boggling,
given his Napoleonic stature and receding hairline. I remember my college friend playfully
turning every conversation with a girl, no matter where she would try to steer it, into something
with sexual undertones. He'd get her thinking about sex, and pretty soon she was thinking about
having sex with him." Remember that steering the conversation into something with sexual
undertones doesn't even necessarily have to mean talking explicitly about sex, see "The
Discovery Channel pattern" for an example of this. Talking about something innocent but
inserting the words "penetrate", "come inside", "hard", "surrender" into the conversation might
do the trick just as well. Whether to use covert (SS and patterns) or overt (GM style)
conversation is not always easy to decide, the best advice I can give concerning this is just to
experiment and "develop an intuition":)
An example of a combination of a cold approach, quoting, stacking realities and using fantasy
stories. ASF: ""I know this guy named Vincent, he was telling me about a woman friend of his.
She said that she was standing by herself in a bar one time when this guy walks up to her, looks
her dead in the eyes and said, "I would like to fuck you. Would you like to fuck me?" and then
just stands there. She said she nearly dropped her drink, but then she started thinking about it and
began feeling that heat building up in her body. You know how you feel when you start to get
really aroused? All wet and excited? She didn't miss a beat and started playing right back at him.
She said, "I'd want you to go down on me first..."
Anyway use your exquisite language skills to tell her exactly what you'd like to do to her & have
Vincent's friend tell it to her. I mean it's not like *YOU'RE* telling her you want to eat her out &
fuck her brains loose or anything:)"
An example of a line to use in a conversation. "When was the last time you had an orgasm? I
really think you need to find a guy right now... and let him bend you over the bathroom sink and
let him have his way with you."
Update. (Taken from "Sweep women off their feet...":) "Most women love the romantic and
emotional stuff, while others are not necessarily interested in a relationship of any kind but
would really enjoy a good session of hot and wild session of unforgettable sex, no strings
attached.
So how do you begin to talk about that kind of low down and dirty sex? Well, if you see that she
doesn't respond to relationship type conversation, move away from it. Offer a different
perspective. You can either describe other couples that you know that are not communicating like
they should and how much of a hassle it can be to be in a loveless relationship and so on.
what's the alternative? It doesn't have to be your own opinion but you can mention how much
of a hassle free a purely sexual experience can be between two horny people. They can share all
their fantasies without fear of being judged by a loved one and threatened with a break-up, they
are free to experience many things that might be viewed as taboo by people in a serious
relationship etc. You can talk about how easy it is to arrange something and see it through when
it comes to nothing but physical pleasure. You can say how both men and women can experiment
with their sexual urges and curiousities without any relationship insecurities or jealousy. You can
give examples of other couples that you know where the woman always fantasized about being
with another woman but the husband was scared that she might leave him for a lesbian. In a
purely physical relationship, it's all about what makes us feel good, it's all about exploring
fantasies and feeling comfortable with who we are as we are.
If you've hit the target, she will agree with you and feel a connection between the two of you
because she will feel you are both the same. At that point you can ask her about her favorite
position or her favourite fantasies that she was never able to talk about or act on in a closed and
conventional relationship. You can tell her about some mild fantasies of yours and direct the
conversation to how wonderful it feels to be able to express yourselves in this way. You can even
mention how talking about this kind of stuff is making you hot right there and then probe to see
if she feels the same way. You can joke about the two of you trying to seduce another person
together for a possible threesome and more depending on the fantasies she already told you
about. If everything clicks you will know because if you don't go for the close, she will."

Talking about sex

A few words of advice - don't ever start a conversation with a girl with sex, sexual innuendoes
etc (there's an exception to this though, see the GM technique which expressly oozes and drips of
sexual innuendoes with the false pretence of being humorous and "just kidding":). Don't
misunderstand it though, the emphasis is on the word "start".
Its just like with patterns - if you start a conversation with a pattern, you´ll just sound
embarrassingly lame. And if you start the conversation with sexual innoendos, you might never
get a chance to continue the conversation. Unless you use the GM technique to harvest for girls
directly, blatantly and shamelessly interested in sex (see also "The cold approach"), you'd better
not take any aspects of the GM technique out of context to use as openers. Unless of course you
are playing the Crash and Burn game:)
Steamy topics of discussion are fine, once you've established rapport with a girl, the conversation
has been going smooth, her body-language shows interest etc, she's past being comfortable with
you, is already into intrigue and maybe even starting to feel a little horny:) Introduce sex, watch
her reactions, be sensitive yet bold. Use quotes ("my friend Katie once told me about how he had
a quick-fuck from a boy he hardly knew":), you can safely get quite graphic using quotes and she
can safely get horny because you're not talking about yourself or her:) But once again, try not to
start the conversation with sexual innuendoes, it can be a major turn-off for a girl.
Mystery suggests to avoid sex-talk completely (she deals primarily with the 9-s and 10-s
though:). Mystery: "Bringing up sex shows its on your mind and if you were truly a guy who gets
girls you wouldn't think about it then. No sex comments. No sex jokes. Go KINO but don't talk
sex."
Update
Clifford, Clifford's Seduction Newsletter: "One thing I have noticed is that a lot of women will
kind of recoil when you say something a bit too sexual and then, if you pursue it with no
apologies, they spring back very positively about the comment. It doesn't happen all the time, and
certainly depends on the comment itself, but many women do respond to sexual comments after
an initial, what shall we call it, politically correct reaction."

GM style lines

• "If you buy me a drink, you might get lucky tonight"
• "I can't please every girl but I'll give you a chance tonight"
• "Women are lining up to be with me"
• "It's tough to be such a sex symbol"
• "Aren't you going to get too horny if I sit next to you?"
• "I'm organising an orgy for my friend's birthday. Wanna come?"
• "I like you because you're intelligent (gesture over her breasts). I like myself because I'm intelligent
too (gesture over your dick)." (once GM even later got a phone-call where the girl said she
wanted to show him her intelligence:)
• "If you're nice enough I will lick you."
• "How does it feel like to be with (one/two) handsome blokes?"
• "My friend's jealous because mine is bigger."
• "Look, we have to go (to her place) now because I have a date in 2 hours. No we can't go to my
place because I have a friend sleeping there."
• "I love myself sooo much I can't leave myself alone."
• "I wish I could split myself in 5 ("me"s) so that I could please all the women."
• "I have to go to the hospital tomorrow" - "What for?" - "To get an operation, (pointing down)
mine's too big"
• "Do you know how I can have a 24 cm /11 inch dick?" "???" "When I fold it in half"
• "Are you hands clean?" - "Yeah" - "Ok, could you hold my dick for me while I'm peeing?"
Update
• "You know, that really bothers me, all those girls and guys going after me, and they're only
interested because of it, you know, I want to be appreciated for who I am, not for just my HUGE
penis."
• "I should'nt talk about that, I don't want you to be incredibly turned on... I don't want you to
make a mental picture of a huuuuuuuuuuuuge throoobing tasty penis." (Nathan: "Her eyes were
glowing -- you could tell what she had in mind!")
• "It's not possible to be cute without being >picked up ... sometimes I wish I wasn't so cute"
(Nathan: "One of the most important aspects of the GM technique is REVERSING ROLES")
• Me: "Do you wake up early in the morning?". Her: "No, not really". Me: "Good, I don't like to
be waken up;)".
Whenever they don't react positively enough, you say:
• "Hide your joy / pleasure!!"
• "Last time I saw someone as excited as you, she was in a coma!"
• "If you don't like cute guys, just tell me!" (Most of the time the reply will be "no, no, we do like
cute guys!". This question reframes their possible dislike of you into a dislike of "cute guys" in
general, which however they want to deny, thus being forced to confess, that they actually do like
you. Tricky eh?:)
Nathan Szilard, ASF: "OKAY ONE IMPORTANT THING: you'd think that he gets blown off
every time he says something that stupid, right? YES HE SHOULD!! He would IF he didn't say
"JUST KIDDING " *before* she has a chance to reply. Psychologically speaking, since she does
not have the time to reply negatively, she's somewhat agreeing. It's rather obvious when you see
it happening. If she starts replying negatively, he cuts her down by saying, "yeah I like to say
stupid things, life's too short not to have fun" or "I like to act like a little kid - I am a kid"." And
then he continues with what he started with:) One other thing he uses to go kino fast and often is
insulting the girl and then "apologising" right away by kissing and hugging:)
A possible explanation of why the GM style actually works, Nathan Szilard: "You don't get
rejected as you would expect - when you think about it, to reject something, you have to know
what it is. When you've heard one particular line a thousand times, you know what it means,
what it is, what it aims at ... When GM approaches she's here, wondering what the fuck is going
on ... it's so outrageous, she can't react in a predetermined way."
From someone who tried the GM technique just to test it, ASF: "It was at the point I was feeling
a little guilty because one was a real sweetheart and I just wanted to fall back to being nice and
letting her talk about her boyfriend - but when I did - I could instantly see it was a mistake so I'd
come off with "I gotta get an operation tomorrow..." and she'd come back with a "You're so bad"
and hitting me... It was easy and she made sure to give me her phone number! I didn't even ask!
This experiment tells me to memorise every one of these lines. They are killer! Pure gold! These
are powerful jokes. Funny how the one who gave me her phone number kept saying she loved a
sense of humour. I thought the jokes weren't funny at all. I was just mouthing words and she was
laughing. I couldn't believe it. The other one had to go but she fell right into talking about sex.
WOW!'"
Update
Nathan Szilard, ASF: "An idea to go beyond GM style: describing the woman as a slut. Isntead
of telling her "you are beautiful" as an AFC does, describe her as if she was doing something
overtly and consciously sexual.
See where I'm going to?
What I learnt from GM, well and from textbook psychology - you can get people to form an
opinion about themselves. Let that opinion be that she is a slut."
The word "slut" in this context is a highly sexual and constantly horny female (not a prostitute).
Update. Doing a pick-up on the street GM-style (suggested by Nathan Szilard, ASF). You have
eye-contact with a woman on the street, she passes, and when you turn back, make sure she hears
this: "Hey! ... What does this mean? You ogle at me and you don't even stop to talk to me? I'm
not a sex object!". She'll probably be standing there, looking back at you and feeling stunned,
now go approach, introduce yourself, act all "hurt" for being taken as only a sex object, offer her
to chance to make it up to you by having the two of you getting to know each other over a cup of
coffee etc:)

GM style explained

Contributed to ASF by Nathan Szilard, this is the description of the technique used by a PUA
acquaintance of his nick-named Grand Master Flash's. Hence the name GM technique. The key
here is smutty sex jokes and continuous humorous sex-talk with keen attention to how the girl
reacts, so as to forestall any negative reactions (and you can be sure, there will be plenty in the
beginning!:) by saying "just kidding", giving an "apologetic" hug to the girl etc. The reasoning
here is this, that if the girl has no chance to express her negative comments about sex-jokes and -
comments, this translates in her subconsciousness to agreeing and accepting what is being said.
The defences will eventually go down, she has to imagine all the sex-jokes in her mind in order
to understand them, and although she might be disgusted or repelled about them in the first place,
she won't be able to express her negativism, her mind is bombarded with more sexual references,
she just keeps imagining and before she knows it, nature kicks in and… she's getting horny:)
Simple:) But potentially dangerous as hell - you really need to be in your element with all the sex
jokes and keep "just kidding" in time not to get slapped in the beginning etc. otherwise you could
fail miserably:)
Nathan Szilard on GM Flash and his technique, ASF: "That's his aggressive style. Basically he
told them he wanted to fuck from the beginning. He had the attitude that he could satisfy them
sexually. He had the confidence that says he does this all the time. He was in their face. He was
making them excited. He was stimulating them like they are not USED TO being stimulated. If
they were going to resist, they would have resisted when he first told them what he wanted from
them. There is the INCORRECT assumption that chicks don't like DICK! They love it and they
want it! The problem is they want it from the guys they want it from. All he has to do is offer
them the SECOND best thing... sexual satisfaction as opposed to sex with a man they WANT!
He doesn't even have to satisfy them:) It's too late by the time he's fucking them! All he has to do
is make them BELIEVE that if they get with him he is going to fuck them WELL! They couldn't
resist because at some point they became HORNY and wanted that RELEASE!"

The perfect relationship

A simple value-eliciting scheme (from an unknown source):
You: What's important to you in a relationship? A relationship, not qualities in a person...
Her: Well... x1
You: Yeah... that's really important to me too. How do you know when you have x1?
Her: xxx (talking about x1).
You: I agree... that's a powerful one. Well, what else is important to you in a relationship?
Her: x2
You: Yeah... xxx (talking about x2).
Her: xxx (talking about x2).
You: Wow...that would be great to be with someone like that. Well, what else is = important to
you in a relationship?
Her: x3
You: Yeah... xxx (talking about x3).
Her: xxx (talking about x3).
Step 2
You: Of those three values - x1, x2, x3 - which is the most important? Which would you
absolutely have to have?
Her: Well... xn (n being either 1, 2 or 3)
You: Well... I could see that. Of the other two, which is most important?
Her: xn (n being either 1, 2 or 3)
Step 3
About an hour+ later:
You: You know...I've been thinking that maybe we've really got the start of something beautiful
here. And I think it's something based on (x1, x2, and x3 in order of her preference she provided
in step 2).
She will go into a pleasure state, at the peak touch her and say:
You: Can you FEEL THAT would be a really wonderful thing to experience?