A few words of advice - don't ever start a conversation with a girl with sex, sexual innuendoes
etc (there's an exception to this though, see the GM technique which expressly oozes and drips of
sexual innuendoes with the false pretence of being humorous and "just kidding":). Don't
misunderstand it though, the emphasis is on the word "start".
Its just like with patterns - if you start a conversation with a pattern, you´ll just sound
embarrassingly lame. And if you start the conversation with sexual innoendos, you might never
get a chance to continue the conversation. Unless you use the GM technique to harvest for girls
directly, blatantly and shamelessly interested in sex (see also "The cold approach"), you'd better
not take any aspects of the GM technique out of context to use as openers. Unless of course you
are playing the Crash and Burn game:)
Steamy topics of discussion are fine, once you've established rapport with a girl, the conversation
has been going smooth, her body-language shows interest etc, she's past being comfortable with
you, is already into intrigue and maybe even starting to feel a little horny:) Introduce sex, watch
her reactions, be sensitive yet bold. Use quotes ("my friend Katie once told me about how he had
a quick-fuck from a boy he hardly knew":), you can safely get quite graphic using quotes and she
can safely get horny because you're not talking about yourself or her:) But once again, try not to
start the conversation with sexual innuendoes, it can be a major turn-off for a girl.
Mystery suggests to avoid sex-talk completely (she deals primarily with the 9-s and 10-s
though:). Mystery: "Bringing up sex shows its on your mind and if you were truly a guy who gets
girls you wouldn't think about it then. No sex comments. No sex jokes. Go KINO but don't talk
sex."
Update
Clifford, Clifford's Seduction Newsletter: "One thing I have noticed is that a lot of women will
kind of recoil when you say something a bit too sexual and then, if you pursue it with no
apologies, they spring back very positively about the comment. It doesn't happen all the time, and
certainly depends on the comment itself, but many women do respond to sexual comments after
an initial, what shall we call it, politically correct reaction."
etc (there's an exception to this though, see the GM technique which expressly oozes and drips of
sexual innuendoes with the false pretence of being humorous and "just kidding":). Don't
misunderstand it though, the emphasis is on the word "start".
Its just like with patterns - if you start a conversation with a pattern, you´ll just sound
embarrassingly lame. And if you start the conversation with sexual innoendos, you might never
get a chance to continue the conversation. Unless you use the GM technique to harvest for girls
directly, blatantly and shamelessly interested in sex (see also "The cold approach"), you'd better
not take any aspects of the GM technique out of context to use as openers. Unless of course you
are playing the Crash and Burn game:)
Steamy topics of discussion are fine, once you've established rapport with a girl, the conversation
has been going smooth, her body-language shows interest etc, she's past being comfortable with
you, is already into intrigue and maybe even starting to feel a little horny:) Introduce sex, watch
her reactions, be sensitive yet bold. Use quotes ("my friend Katie once told me about how he had
a quick-fuck from a boy he hardly knew":), you can safely get quite graphic using quotes and she
can safely get horny because you're not talking about yourself or her:) But once again, try not to
start the conversation with sexual innuendoes, it can be a major turn-off for a girl.
Mystery suggests to avoid sex-talk completely (she deals primarily with the 9-s and 10-s
though:). Mystery: "Bringing up sex shows its on your mind and if you were truly a guy who gets
girls you wouldn't think about it then. No sex comments. No sex jokes. Go KINO but don't talk
sex."
Update
Clifford, Clifford's Seduction Newsletter: "One thing I have noticed is that a lot of women will
kind of recoil when you say something a bit too sexual and then, if you pursue it with no
apologies, they spring back very positively about the comment. It doesn't happen all the time, and
certainly depends on the comment itself, but many women do respond to sexual comments after
an initial, what shall we call it, politically correct reaction."
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